Purpose is the New Happiness

How I became spiritually rich in an unorthodox way

Eren Elsewhere
5 min readJul 14, 2024

Mixing baking soda and vinegar creates a chemical reaction that produces Water and Sodium acetate — these are called Primary products.

But the reaction also produces a side-product — carbon dioxide (CO2).

I’m talking about a chemical reaction because the mistake I made was trying to create Happiness as the primary product of my actions.

Until I realised I couldn’t just will myself to be happier.

Happiness isn’t the primary product you get when you mix baking soda and vinegar — it’s the carbon dioxide.

Happiness is the byproduct of living a meaningful and purposeful life.

And why is purpose important?

Purpose makes me feel like I matter, and like the world is a better place with me here — something I never felt in the past pursuing happiness.

Creating purpose starts with accepting who you are — and your role in the world — and doubling down on that.

And this story might help illustrate why.

The Stonecutter

There was once a stonecutter who was unhappy with his position in life.

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Eren Elsewhere

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